[Winslow] Parties are always better with good friends so, if you opt to visit YMCA, Ashland, try seem well clothed yet not too formal, choosing clothing that have you feeling secure and don't stop you from conveying yourself or moving easily and attempt to find some company before you go. A good thing about USA is when you don't like a gay bar you might have a lot of other cafes that you will probably enjoy a lot more.